Let My Words Be Few

Today, I want to talk about something very simple: Our words. In Proverbs 25:11, the Bible states, "A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver" (NIV). Ever have the best intentions going into a conversation, only to come out of it totally dismayed by the end result? The enemy constantly looks for ways to stir up trouble. We can surrender our words over to him so easily by a misguided statement or unsolicited opinion. A word fitly spoken means that we choose carefully the time to speak, and the words we speak to positively impact the conversation. If it is impossible to say anything that moves a conversation forward, then may I suggest that silence prevail? Yes, just be quiet. 

We often have urges to speak even when we know that the thoughts stirring in our mind ain't no good (pardon the bad grammar). Tempering our words, choosing them carefully, and making conscious decisions to be quiet are disciplinary actions against our flesh. Please consider this, and use it as a guide to filter the words you speak:

My words should be:

Soft: "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger"  (Proverbs 15:10). The words we choose to use has an affect on the hearer.

Slow: "Be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger" (James 1:19, NIV); "Listen much, speak little, and don't become angry" (TLB). The wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God. No good ever comes from sinful anger. Harsh, loud, caustic speech leads to arguments and quarrels; while soft, gentle words bring about peace. "A soft tongue can break hard bones" (Proverbs 25:15, NIV).

Sweet: "Sweetness of the lips increases learning" (Proverbs 16:21, NIV). "Pleasant words promote instruction and understanding" (TLB).

Suitable: "Pleasant words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the bones" (Proverbs 16:24, NIV). Kind, sweet words have a medicinal effect on both body and soul.

Scant: "In the multitude of words, sin is not lacking, but he who restrains his lips is wise" (Proverbs 10:19, NIV). Don't talk so much. One who talks so much is sure to sin. In other words, choose your words wisely and keep them few.

Words (Author Unknown):

• A careless word may kindle strife.
• A cruel word may wreck a life.
• A brutal word may smite and kill.
• A gracious word may smooth the way.
• A joyous word may light the day.
• A timely word may lesson stress.
• A loving word may heal and bless.

"Let the words of my mouth...be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord" (Psalm 19:14, NIV).

May God grant you peace today as you think on these things!

God bless,

Dori